Monday, June 29, 2009

Bullfrogs and Butterflies and Bad Behavior...

Does anyone remember that operetta, "Bullfrogs and Butterflies"? I love the song, "Bullfrogs and butterflies, they both been born again..."

So let's start with the good news. We had an awesome class at Nankin Mills last week...it was all about Butterflies. It's pretty amazing how butterflies grow and change from caterpillars into butterflies...another one of God's miracles. No one is quite sure what actually happens in that chrysallis....
We got to take home three monarch eggs, and here is one of them, hatched:

You'll need to click on the picture to see it close up, in the bottom left corner of the leaf.
We have a nice supply of milk weed leaves in the fridge, just waiting to be eaten.

In other animal/science news, we had to let the bullfrog tadpoles-turned-frogs go because they were EATING the tiny spring peeper frogs. It was super interesting to watch the whole metamorphosis.

In the bad behavior department, it seems that a lack of routine and extra late nights has made some behavior issues crop up...like constant bickering. Yikes! I am not sure if I am especially sensitive to it since I never really had to fight with any siblings (I was much younger than them, and didn't really live with them most of my life), but the bickering is making my ears start to bleed. :D

I am reading a great book called "Don't Make Me Count to Three". It's about how to incorporate biblical passages and perspectives into your parenting and disciplining. It talks a lot about how our kids should know that we (the parents) answer to a greater authority...parents don't just discipline because we love to yell, be upset, and watch our kids roll their eyes.

Anyone have some great advice or great reading they've done on siblings and arguing?

Friday, June 19, 2009

Fathers

Sorry that it's been so long since I posted here. Sometimes I feel like I update on Facebook, and I have another private blog, so after a while cross-posting or coming up with something new gets overwhelming and/or I feel like everyone's pretty much heard everything that's going on in Sarah's life! :D

But this weekend has got me thinking about FATHERS.

What a special father I have.


Some good memories of my dad:

-Watching him work on building the house in Flat Rock when I was young.
-Knowing he could fix pretty much anything.
-Him and I on vacation fishing and canoeing Up North and seeing a bald eagle eating a salmon when I was a teenager.
-Having my dad attend pretty much every single athletic event I ever participated in -- and if you know my dad, you know he was the most "enthusiastic" fan there!
-When Mattie was born, and he first saw her, he said, "She's so.......symmetrical."
-My dad getting to see Jonah be born -- he thought that was pretty cool.


By seeing a good example of what a man should be and how a father should act, I think that's helped me make a good choice as to the kind of man I want my husband and my kid's father to be.

I hope Mattie and Jonah love their dad as much as I love mine.

I know God doesn't give us perfect parents, but he gives us parents that are perfect for us.

Thanks, and Happy Father's Day, dad.